I believe that you hair should always accommodate your outfit. Most of my outfits revolve around how my hair is styled, when your hair is a mess, your outfit follows. Last night, along with a few other nights when I was too tired to pick up a curling iron, I decided to break out one of my wigs. I must say, It makes my nights a lot more fun.
This was yesterday.
Last april I went to Miami and had all my friends wear wigs with me, it definitely spiced up the night. We were called the lollipop gang till we left Miami.
When your hair is a mess, have a wig in handy 🙂
Live a little!
These are just some of my recent buys.
This is a jacket I found at a boutique in Brooklyn. It reminds me of shredded paper. This with some white trousers should be pretty holy. $45
Speaking of trousers, check out these Fendi trousers I got for $19!
These are Vintage Australian ski pants, they have stir ups at the bottom. I fell in love with the fit and how warm they were, I’m going to wear them like they are simple trousers. $19
These are some patent leather spectators my mom bought me for christmas, She did a good job. $20
This is a diesel shirt I found, It’s a western inspired button down that will look awesome with some frayed jeans and brown cowboy boots. $15
Someone just recently posted a comment to my blog, which I accepted, that made me want to point something out. I accepted it because I am not offended, I just want to show them a different light.
It’s a conversation I had with my friend Crystal the other day about “confidence”.
I remembered we agreed with sarcasm on the fact that “no one can ever be confident these days”. Right away, your conceited, your full of it, your this, your that.
There are many people in the world who will tell you, you are many things, people who don’t even know you, who will try anything to make you believe you are someone you aren’t. People who aren’t happy with themselves who want you to feel just the way they do, because after all “misery does love company”. I’m not saying this person who commented me is the case, I’m making a generalization.
It’s the perfect blog topic and I was just reminded of it as one of my readers said “you’d be a lot cooler if you were humble”.
I want to respond to him or her with respect and no offense taken at all.
Why is it that in society, no one can be confident?
Why is it that I have to sit around hating myself, not believing in myself or feel like I’m just average just to get good recognition of people around me?..
For those who know me, know that I am very down to earth, and completely selfless. I don’t go around putting people down, being condescending, or telling people I’m better than them. It’s just never been who I am considering I used to be that girl in junior high school who got teased for being the ugly duckling.
Now I don’t have anything to prove to anyone, but I just want to get my point across.
If I don’t love myself for who I am, flaws and all, who will? If I don’t believe in myself, where will my determination come from, will I ever get anywhere in life, will I ever progress?..
I don’t think I’m the most beautiful woman in the world, I have flaws, I know I fit the mold of decent, but If I were hideous and loved myself for who I was, would I still be perceived as “conceited” or “full of myself”?..Anyone who is even remotely decent and well dressed will always be perceived as being full of themselves. Lets just cut the bullshit here and really think about it.
I have written down my flaws, written down my pain for the world to see, I am not super woman, But I have paid my dues and I have struggled to get where I am today, so If loving myself, and being confident is considered being “full of myself” than hey, That’s just who I am. You don’t have to like me, hell, you don’t even have to love me, but love the fact that I love myself, because there are a lot of people out there who HATE themselves. I know because I used to be one of those people, and I am soooo glad I am far from that.
So with that said, I hope that people start applauding those who love themselves, in a world of negativity, we have to love ourselves enough to go on, and live life as positive as possible.
Love me or hate me, this is who I am, and I wont change or water myself down to suit your standards.
I’m at the bottom with the Olivia De Berardinis books and paintings.
Best cruise, best trip, best group of people Ive ever met.